I will make this short, but it’s pretty telling. Twenty five years ago, I was working at my desk at the phone company. Unexpectedly my supervisor sent over a new sales manager to sit with me and just watch what I was doing so he could get familiar with procedures. He sat next to me very seriously watching what I was typing into a computer. He didn’t smile. He didn’t laugh. He didn’t speak. He did respond to me a little. However, after a few hours, he got up and walked away from me.
Then, out of nowhere I heard “a voice” in the office say, “One day that man is going to mean everything to you”. I was shocked. I was single, in a long time, happy relationship. I wasn’t looking or thinking of changing anything in my life. However, three years later, we were married. It’s been 22 years and we have a happy and healthy relationship. Pretty amazing to me.